2020 has been a year of unexpected twists and turns. We recognize so many Nurses in our community have been working tirelessly on COVID units while also adjusting to the changes this year has brought. Maybe you’ve lost a patient recently or feel tired from the high stress COVID unit you’ve been working on. Maybe you had to reschedule a big life event or have lost out on finances due to the events from this year.
Whatever is coming up for you at this time we just want to honor you and honor your feelings, whatever those may be.
Create cards (index cards, etc) you can write statements on that affirm your feelings. Post them throughout your house or on your work clipboard so you are reminded of them often. For example; I have a big heart and feel this loss deeply. I know I am supported and have my husband to lean on.
A good nurse bestie, a friend, or a signifcant other can be good sources of support. Schedule a coffee date or dinner for just the two of you to rejuvenate yourself. Seek therapy or support in a therapeutic environment if you need it. Share with your unit how you’re doing and check in on each other.
Always remember it is okay to set a boundary with a loved one when you need a listening ear without feedback. We all need that when going through loss and changes in our life. So often people want to give feedback or advice when someone is hurting and this can be difficult when you are the one hurting. Feedback and opinions aren’t always what is needed in the moment.
Let your loved one know ahead of time you simply need them to listen and don’t currently need any feedback. This gives you the freedom to express yourself without someone giving advice and this gives them the freedom to know you need support and love without them needing to offer advice.
Our next release + connect community hour is happening on Thursday, November 5th. We will have MB Mannino with us. She is a certified breathwork facilitator and she will be helping us use breath and meditation to work through any feelings we are working through right now.
If any of these tips helped you or you have more to share, drop a comment below! 🖤
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